I declined a phone call from my mom the night she died
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It’s been about a week since she passed away suddenly in her sleep, on the early morning of Friday the 6th.
Today I was thinking about the last time we spoke. I checked my call log with her and saw I declined her call Thursday evening.
My heart dropped.
I wonder what she called for. Maybe she wasn’t feeling well and knew. My mind keeps going over what she wanted to say. Likely just checking in with me.
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I’ll never forgive myself for not answering. I dont even remember getting a call from her. I feel so bad.
Netizens’ comments
- My Mom called me and left a message on my phone to tell me she was going down to theatre for her op and would see me later, she died on the operating table. The message was automatically deleted after 7 days, I still hear it in my head, 3 years later. I did see her however, the night before she died and had done every day. I miss her so much and my Dad who died 15 months before her.
I’m so sorry for your loss but perhaps she was ringing to say she loved you, just keep that memory. Sending love and hugs. Xx
- Maybe you missed her call. Don’t beat yourself up over it – there was no argument or harsh last words. She called because she loves you. You are mourning her because you love her. It sounds like you had a nice relationship; I’m sorry for your loss.