This happened a few years ago.
Single dude at the time, hanging out in a nightclub. The place was pretty crowded when suddenly a group of girls surrounded us. We all acted cool and started dancing with each other, having a good time.
One of the girls approached me and we start having a little chat. At the end of the night, she gave me her number.
We texted for two days, things were going well and we agreed to meet for a drink on a weekday. We go out, have a couple of drinks, get to know each other and stuff and the date was going smoothly. She was a kindergarten teacher (or something like that) and she recently became single too!
It was getting late and we decided to leave so I escort her back to her car. We talk a little more and she asks me to jump in the car – which I did. We make out and eventually we get a little touchy-feely… As the heat was turning up she leans back a bit, gives me a seductive look and asks “Can you talk dirty to me?”.
…Now prepare yourselves for the f up. I think to myself “I must be a considerate and responsible person and I shall not be a bad influence to that girl”. So without freaking hesitation, I reply “No, you must leave, cause you got work early in the morning!” At the time I didn’t even comprehend what I’ve just said or even consider what she was suggesting.
Naturally texting between us died down and eventually we lost contact; and I kept wondering what went wrong. Until one day, a couple of years later my brain started functioning properly and realized my major blunder.
Should I have done it?