I just got a girlfriend. Yes, some of my friends still can’t believe I can get a girlfriend, but I did. We met on the mobile game Maplestory M, and got close through several meet ups with our “guild” and eventually got together.
We have been dating for about 3 weeks, and she’s the tomboy-type of girl but she’s very pretty and sweet looking.
Anyway, for context, everytime we went out for our guild gatherings or on our dates, she has always worn jeans or pants, and I didn’t realise it until now but I have never seen her legs.
So anyway this morning I went to my girlfriend’s house to pick her up for breakfast and she came out wearing a skirt. This was the first time I had ever seen her wearing a skirt and I was really surprised by it.
At first I didn’t really notice anything strange but then, as I was looking more closely, I noticed her legs were really hairy, like they were much hairier than mine. It was a bit shocking because you can literally see her leg hair was a little bit curly at the ends.
It made me a bit uncomfortable and I wasn’t sure how to react. I mean, I don’t want to make her feel self-conscious about her body but at the same time I’m a bit taken aback by the difference in our leg hair. I admit I felt a bit disgusted but i try not to pay too much attention to it.
I ended up just trying to act normal and not make a big deal out of it but it was still really strange for me. Later I asked her why she was wearing a skirt and she said she just felt like it and wanted to “air” her legs because the weather was very stuffy.
So I “tore off the plaster” and went ahead and asked her about her leg hair, then she got a little bit upset and asked me “why? what’s wrong with not shaving?”
She said if guys can keep their leg hair and armpit hair, why can’t girls do the same? I really don’t know how to answer.
Anyway I really don’t know how to move on from this, I can’t stand the sight of her hairy legs but I don’t want to piss her off by asking her to shave it off.
Help?