I hooked up with a woman I met at a bar last weekend. I’m not normally into the one night stand thing or hookup culture but she was hot.
Well we went back to her place and did the deed and after we were done I took a shower and was getting dressed when she says to me “You need to hurry my husband just texted me and he’s going to be here soon!” I was shocked because she said nothing about being married.
I said “You have a husband what the f?” She seemed shocked and said “Is it a problem for you?” I said yes and even though we exchanged numbers that I didn’t want to see her again.
Well on Monday I searched her name on Facebook, found her husband and sent him a quick message.
I told him that we hooked up last weekend and that she wasn’t wearing a ring and I didn’t know she was married and we slept in his bed and that she told me after.
I told him I was very sorry and if I had known I never would’ve slept with her and he’s welcome to punch me out if he sees me.
He messaged me back and said he had a feeling she’s been sleeping around and that he appreciated me telling him and that because I didn’t know he’s not upset with me.
He said he’s going to confront her in a couple of days.
Today she texted me and was angry that I told her husband and that he’s filing for divorce. I texted back “Is that a problem for you?” and she has not responded.
I still feel bad but I’m glad I told her husband. It felt like the right thing to do and if I were him I’d want to know.