Is 30 a high body count ? (27m)
Been active with women since 19yo
One night as me and my friends were playing truth or dare and a guy took the play as the truth being asked “ what is your body count” and it continue the topic
Among the 5 friends, the highest body count is 12 and the lowest is 3, but when is my turn to tell the truth. It shocked them. ( 30 )
From their reaction. It had made me feel uncomfortable.
Making me feel like I’m a “dirty person”.
After doing some calculation. I only slept with 3-4 diff girls in a year average.
Wandering this thought had made me realised that I am just human. I still crave for love and attention. I desire something more than just physical intimacy but at the same time afraid to commit due to past relationship trauma.
Netizens’ comments
- It’s a bit subjective really, it’s high for some and not for others depending on their own perspective.
The main issue is only that it might indicate to some people that you have a different perspective or value for it than they do, so it might put some people off or others may not care at all, again, it’s about different attitudes and perspectives. - Depends on who you ask. Some girls will be turned off and some girls won’t. You just gotta find the ones that don’t care.
- I’m 29F, and as long as my boyfriend is STD free and capable of being 100% faithful to me, I couldnt care less about the life he had before he met me.
- Flip the table, would you consider it high from whoever you slept with if they told you that was their number?