I had been hooking up with this girl for about a month, and last night she came over. Everything was as usual, we hooked up, but when we got up I noticed a brown stain on my white top sheet.
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I don’t know if she saw it or not but at first I thought it was dried blood so I took it off and threw it in the closet fast so she wouldn’t be embarrassed. She left shortly after and I looked at the sheets, it’s definitely poo.
Am I wrong to ghost?? Or should I say something? I don’t think it was like a residual poop from not cleaning herself properly, I would have noticed before…
Edit: it might not be poop, it doesn’t smell. Maybe it is just discharge, excuse my ignorance
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- I had this happen once. The gal I was seeing pooped in bed just the tiniest bit, but it really smelled. We both knew what had happened, but it was a new relationship so our communication wasn’t very well established.
I pretended not to notice and washed the sheets after she left. Continued to sleep with her, never brought it up. I’m sure she was super embarrassed, but it would have done no good to add to it by telling her I noticed.
And if I’d ghosted her or broken up over it, I would have missed out on the months of enjoyable dating I had with her after that.
It’s your call, OP. But shart happens! - if it didn’t smell then she probably just started her period and it was brown blood/spotting from first day bleeding
- Probably not poop. Brown discharge can happen for a number of reasons (imminent period or period is ending, birth control pills, etc.)
Sometimes it looks a bit like poop but has a very different smell/texture. It’s just old blood that has turned brown from oxidation and is being expelled from the body. It’s normal and involuntary. - Are you sure not old blood? If it was poop I feel like it would have smelled a lot more potent… once I was done with my period for over 24 hours (that’s my rule lol) and I hooked up with an ex..
he went to the bathroom and omg I saw it on his bed.. I took soap and water and rubbed it like crazy I was so embarrassed hahahah but it totally looked like dark poo at first.
It was definitely old blood I put it up to my face like wtf was that me? There was nothing on him or my legs or anywhere else. Assuming it was just like a drop?? Who knows. But unless it smelled, it wasn’t poop