What do y’all think about this situation? (Stalker or not?)
So I (F) was walking to footlocker orchard from Mandarin Gallery, as i was walking there I noticed a guy behind me but didn’t thought much of it.
And as I’m nearing the store I saw he was still behind me, I just thought he was going to the same store or someth. Then had to cross the road at orchard gateway, he crossed too.
when I entered the store about to go up the escalator, I almost shat myself. He suddenly stopped me, then use this “come here” hand gesture which I was appalled, then told me to take out my AirPods ….
He was like “btw I followed u from all across the street here to let u know I like ur outfit it’s very nice”.
His body language was giving me bad vibes in my gut feeling and I told him that I was married even tho I’m not, showed him the promise ring my bf got me haha then I went up without even saying any other things, he was just standing there like 🧍🏻♂️ then I stayed in the store for a hella long while before leaving
I was kinda shaking at that point cos u know after all the news and articles online been telling girls to watch out for whatever stalkers… times have changed.
Not sure if his approach was wrong? Following me for such a long way and then I don’t know if it’s just me but his whole “come here” gesture and telling me to take out my AirPod, then saying he followed me from… was just off.
Maybe I’m just timid and that’s why was shaken up after that. But what do y’all think of this situation and that guy? Should I have been scared?