What does it mean when he says he’s ok if I date someone else, but he will feel a bit sian?
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We’ve been dating for 6 months plus, our interactions and dates have been very fun and enjoyable. We always manage to talk through our disagreements in a cordial, calm, level-headed manner.
Bedroom play is fantastic and out-of-this-world too. We have a lot of chemistry in that area.
But he says he’s unsure and also worried that he will hurt me. And he says he don’t want to be possessive too. Someone told me that if the guy really loves you, he wouldn’t want you to date another person.
What are your thoughts and perspectives? Should I move on and focus my energy and time on another potential?
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Here are what netizens think:
- Why do u date someone for 6 months and sleep together without being officially attached? Who buys the cow if he’s getting milk for free? He’s trying to make an exit now, but saying these things to give you some “face”, so that u can choose to leave first. If someone tells you he’s unsure, 100% you should tell him back that you are even more unsure and just leave.
- Friend with benefits that’s what you are to him.
- Once he has bedded you it doesnt matter what you say or think. You have been played. Literally. Thats where the slang comes from. Unless he mentions of a possible future with you which he didn’t.
- It means he is annoyed that this restaurant he has been dining in for free is gonna be open to others. He would love for this restaurant to be for him only cos who doesn’t want exclusive free food? Lol. He is hoping his fishing skills will reel you back in to his sweet empty words. Also, his worry of hurting you is as real as GST going to 1%. Drop him la. He playing you for a fool.
- It means he’s not ready to be exclusive with you as his sole partner. He’s telling you to hang around in a situationship but he’s also acting a bit reluctant for dramatic effect to hold your heart in place. Players do that all the time. Learn to read the signals. No commitment means he is not averse to sticking his D into other girls as well. So right now at this point, the ball is in your court.