GF (24f) will be cohabiting with me (29m) soon and had just told her family about me. I’ll be having brunch with her parents soon but her brothers invited me over for beers at a bar tonight to get to know me.
Started off very formal with intros and us just getting to know each other.
They weren’t very friendly and just and pretty much just grilled me for over 2 hours about how we met with her interning at my office, why we’re moving in together, blah blah blah.
Finally got to a place where we’re just talking about current events and our lives.
Several beers later and they’re finally starting to loosen up and we’re having a nice friendly banter going. One of her brothers starts talking about his ex and some of her harder appetites.
In my drunken stupor I said “yeah man that’s nothing some girls really love for you to push them to their limits” so he laughed and asked what I meant and I said “ehh it’ll be weird if you guys know about that”.
We were all quiet and just looking at our drinks for like 45 seconds as they digested what I said and I’m realizing how stupid I am.
Whatever friendliness we were working up to is gone but now there’s this tense awkwardness. I offered to get the entire bill, they didn’t even thank me, and then we went our separate ways.
GF is staying over tonight and she asked me how it went because her family is super protective of her.
I told her what I said and she went white as a ghost.
She’s still in disbelief over how stupid I am and said we’ll talk about it tomorrow.
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