I was shocked when my boyfriend took my particulars without my permission to apply for a BTO. He said it was because he was scared that I would leave him.
I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and have never had any issues with him. We’ve had our ups and downs like every other couple, but I never thought he would do something like this.
I was completely taken aback when I found out that he had taken my particulars for a BTO without my permission. I couldn’t believe it.
He had never done anything like this before, and it really hurt to know that he didn’t trust me enough to ask me first.
I had no idea why he would do something like this. After talking to him, I found out that he was scared that I would leave him and he wanted to make sure that I would not leave him so he chose to tie me down by applying for a BTO.
I understood why he did it, but I was still mad at him for not trusting me enough to ask me first. I felt like he was taking away my freedom and independence by doing this.
It made me feel like he was trying to control me.
I told him that I didn’t want a house that he had applied for without my permission. I told him that if he really wanted to buy a house, he should talk to me first and make sure that I was okay with it.
I also told him that he should never take my particulars without my permission again.
He apologized and said that he would never do it again. He also promised to talk to me about any major decisions that he made in the future.
I was still mad at him even after he apologised as I felt that he was not trusting enough of me and had the audacity to take my particulars without my permission.
It was a wake-up call for me, and it made me realize that this guy cannot be trusted and is really a loser.
I eventually broke up with him as I don’t want to feel like my freedom and independence are being taken away from me.