My boyfriend wants to try a strap on
My (23f) boyfriend (25m) told me he wanted to be more experimental in the bedroom yesterday.
He also suggested things like a three way which I honestly would like to try as well and I don’t mind him opening up about his fantasies.
But as he mentioned being bi (which I already know) and therefore suggesting to try me using a strap on, it felt really weird to me. I don’t blame him for wanting that tho.
I just don’t feel comfortable with doing that at all and I’m kind of scared
Now I’m just worried about not meeting his needs in bed. What can I do about that?
- Talk to him about your feelings and concerns. He’s opened up and been vulnerable with you, simply return the favor
- Just tell him you aren’t comfortable with it. You’re allowed to have boundaries.