A guy found out that his girlfriend of 7 years has been cheating with his best friend of 11 years, and he was horrified and distraught.
Here is the story
Honestly, I’ll just spare the details and keep it short, but my best friend of 11 years got off with my girlfriend of 7 years at a party last week.
I have all the proof from another person, including videos and I am wondering how I should go about this.
Neither of them know that I know, and they are acting like nothing happened, asking me to play video games, meet up etc which is honestly making me feel sick.
After spending 3 days in my room in a state of distraught I finally went outside yesterday. I’m an absolute state right now and it all just hurts so much.
I was hoping it was all a nasty rumour but i’ve seen videos of them getting off and I don’t know what to do now.
Should I just cut off both of them completely or should I confront them. Any advice is welcome 🙁
Netizens’ comments
- Confront them and then cut them off. If you don’t say your piece then it will eat at you and you will regret not saying anything. It’s going to suck and it’s going to hurt for a while, but it’s gotta be done.
- focus on future you.
Put yourself 6-12 months down the line.
There may be unknowns – but balance these with the verified and undoubtedly uncomfortable known truth that sadly surfaced a few days ago.
The unknowns will become exciting adventures full of laughter and romance in time.
The known truth will eat you up the longer you keep it to yourself.
Confide in close friends, talk to people who’ve been through long term break ups before, ask for advice on an exit plan and have your friends help you:
- keep you accountable to your plan; and
- keep you sane in the rough first few months. It gets better, I promise and I’m confident your friends will promise the same too.