I’ve been tgt with my gf for more than a year now and I feel a bit cheated cos she wasn’t as clingy as she is now at the start.
When I first met her, I thought she was someone very independent and had her own life. I did tell her then that I found this very hot.
I believe that a couple should not revolve their lives around each other and should still have their alone time to do what they like.
Sometimes I really regret being a man cos I feel like I really walked into her trap. Now everywhere I go she wants to follow and not just that, everywhere she goes, she wants me to follow too.
She want to cling onto me is her choice but why must she force me to cling onto her too? She do manicure why must I be there to watch her nails being painted? Is it eye power the nail polish will dry faster?
I’m someone who really enjoys my freedom so even though my gf is gan hot and chio, I find myself becoming a workaholic now cos work is the only place she cannot follow me to.
Even when I think about her I feel like suffocating. I’ve told her a million times but she still doesn’t get it. Best part is when I told her I wanted to break up, she can still appear at my house the next day like nothing happened.
Really hin. Is it I need to move across the Atlantic Ocean?
She got abandonment issues or what, that’s not healthy at all for a relationship, wanting to follow someone everywhere they go. People need their own space to do their own things. i think you need to evaluate this relationship and see where your priorities lie.