A girl shared how her boyfriend’s father is rude and vulgar to not just her but everyone, and that he boyfriend doesn’t say anything.
Here is the story:
“I really need to get this off my chest sigh.
I really dislike my boyfriend’s father. He is rude and vulgar to people and he often says very nasty things to everyone (like everyone). This is just the surface of the issues he has. I understand nobody is perfect and I just try to distance myself and ignore the things he says or does. I can get along with the rest of the family and have no issue with them.
My question is I am worried on how he will impact my life if I do get married with my boyfriend. Will everything get better or will it get worse? When we have kids, will he affect my children (this is something I think I have zero tolerance on).
My boyfriend does not agree with his father but does not say anything out of respect and he is generally a more tolerant person. I get that and I don’t want to make his life difficult but it really just makes me afraid, annoyed and upset. Every time it gets too much my bf just says he knows but some things are out of control and our convo ends because I also don’t know what else to say.
I never had any issue with any of my ex-s family and I can’t help but feel horrible that when I have a stable relationship, this has to happen… Any advice? Thank you very much. I appreciate all and stay safe”
Editor’s note: Stand up to him and let him know how you feel.