My friends are obsessed with my mum and it’s getting on my nerves
I live with my mum who’s been separated for about 4 years now. She’s in her mid 40s. Anyway, I made completely new friends when I switched schools who seemed nice enough.
However after they’d met my mum they’d all begin acting weirdly. They’d always mention how my mum was hot in just general conversation and everyone would laugh in agreement.
That I can take as it is light hearted and just guys being guys.
Some of my friends even told me they’d touch themselves over the thought of my mum and even that I could deal with, although there was a high chance they weren’t lying.
But then it got more intense. The comments got more severe, saying how they would ‘love to f my mum’ or ‘spank her’. They would also start coming over to my house and asking for my mum.
They would act really polite and well managed infringe of my mum in attempt to get her to like them then switch up back to the usual ‘f’ comments after she’d left.
What annoyed me the most is my mum would always mention to me how nice my friends are and how much she liked and they were well mannered to speak to, not knowing they were just interested in her body.
The worst thing happened a few days ago when I had some friends over and as my mum walked across one of my friends, tripped and in the process of falling sort of slapped/grabbed her.
My mum asked if he was ok but this infuriated me. I told him very strongly what the f is wrong with him and to stop doing weird stuff like that but he just continued being vulgar to my friends saying that ‘my mum felt jiggly’.
I honestly don’t know what to do anymore, are these just my friends being obsessed with her and each others mums. Or is this obsession to much because I think it is, and what should I do about it?