Girlfriend Doesn’t Want to Post Relationship on Social Media. Worried about Co-Workers
Me (M28) and my girlfriend (F29) have been dating for 1 year and a half. I’ve already met her family and her friends and we are very serious about the relationship.
She’s been very hesitant about posting any pictures or anything about us on social media.
Recently, it has gotten even worse after tagging her in a Facebook post I saw (we are both looking for an apartment).
She basically said she doesn’t want me to tag her in any posts because she doesn’t want people to see anything about our relationship.
She tells me that it’s because of her co-workers and that her co-workers like to gossip and create drama.
I understand keeping the relationship private, but this seems like overkill. Especially after dating for a year and a half.
What’s the best way to sit down and talk with her respectively about our relationship and social media?
Netizens’ comments
she needs to remove her coworkers from Facebook. just tell her to tell them she isn’t using Facebook anymore.
i work in a company and i have the same issue with coworkers gossiping and causing drama. in particular this 1 person who always talks crap about every single person behind their back.
i specifically don’t add anyone from my work on my Facebook because of this particular person. i have a Instagram/twitter that is work related/business and i just add coworkers on that.