My girlfriend fell in love with my friend.
they have been talking for 2 months, she started getting feelings for him a couple of weeks ago.
She wanted to tell me but I confronted her before she was ready. She told me that she doesn’t love me the way she used to and now it’s more platonic. She just has a crush on him.
Out of respect for me, they agreed to block each other and she has been crying about it for the past 2 days.
But I’m starting to wonder if it’s too late and our relationship will be rotting from the inside because of her feelings, even if they fade, she doesn’t think they will, as she hasn’t felt it with anyone else.
Right now we’re trying to talk and give it some time but in her head she just sees a choice of her happiness vs. mine and she just can’t say it.
I’m heartbroken, I treated her the best I could and respected her. I don’t know what to say to my friend either, he’s just ashamed and clearly has feelings for her too.
They’re both a part of our mutual friend group and it will be torn apart.
Netizens’ comments
- Thoughts are with ya brother, time to move on and never look back. (Easier said than done, I know.)
- Damn mate! Just reading this hurts. Hope you’ll get through it faster.
- Sorry bro but i dont think this is a relationship that is destined to work.