I’m less attracted to my gf because of cosmetic procedures
My girlfriend works around a lot of people who get cosmetic stuff done, and lately she’s been getting more and more procedures done and it’s slowly making me feel less physically attracted to her.
I feel really bad about it tbh because she’s just trying to do what makes her happy, but I am not a big fan of those kinds of things at all.
I’ve never tried to stop her or shame her because at the end of the day, it’s her body and her life. But I’ve noticed I am becoming increasingly less attracted to her physical appearance the more stuff she gets done.
She used to just change her hair colors and lengths frequently, which I always liked because I think being so versatile with your hair is cool.
She started getting brow work done, and then she started getting those big fluffy eyelash extensions. More recently, she’s gotten lip fillers and Botox to make her lips big, and it’s a huge turn off for me.
I haven’t said anything negative to her and I’m trying to be supportive but I’ll be completely honest I think it looks ridiculous and i hate how her lips feel when she kisses me.
They feel lumpy, swollen and like I’m kissing someone completely different and it’s weird.
Like I said, I feel like a complete jerk for finding her less attractive when she’s just trying to feel better about herself and such, but I’m really not into it and find it pretty off-putting.
Not to mention, we’re tight on money and she’s blowing them off on stuff she doesn’t even need in the first place.