My girlfriend broke up with me and a week later she’s already found someone else
This sucks. I loved her a lot and I took care of her but she broke up with me and now she’s sleeping with some guy already meanwhile I’m still in agony over the breakup and unable to function.
I lay in bed crying all day and she’s already over it. Damn, I’m so lonely. I don’t know when the loneliness will ever end. I feel like I’m never going to get a partner again.
- Forget about her man. Live your life for you now. You’ll bounce back, you’ll find happiness again.
- I’ve been through this exact scenario, sadly more than once. I am so sorry you’re going through such agony at the moment. Nothing any of us say can take the pain away, but do know that you WILL move on. Your heart WILL heal, and you WILL find someone even better. I went through a traumatic breakup after moving in with my first serious boyfriend and discovered he was not only trying to meet up with men, but was screwing another girl as well. I left and two weeks later she moved in with him. I was shattered. But three months later, I met my husband. I was not ready for a relationship but when I met him, I knew. While it still took me several months after meeting him before I fully healed from the previous relationship, I knew he was my forever. It wasn’t that I missed my ex, it was that I had to heal and forgive myself for remaining in a situation that I knew was toxic long before we moved in together. My husband got that and was so amazing.
You will go through this grief, and you will be stronger on the other side. Then you’ll meet someone new, and you’ll fall in love all over again. It’s hard for you to picture now but I can guarantee you that this will happen.
Cut her out of your life. Block her on all social media. She will inevitably reach out to you and that is never a good thing. She’s broken your heart and shattered your relationship. I wouldn’t trust her intentions. Plus it’s a lot easier to move on when you don’t have constant reminders of this person. If you can, take a social media break altogether.
I’m happy to chat if you ever need to vent.