Girlfriend has only guy friends…
I (23M) started a long distance relationship a few months ago with a girl (20F) I’ve been in absolute love with, however there is a single issue that bothers the Hell out of me.
Essentially all of her friends are guys online that hit on her, it comes to blows where I tell them to stfu and she tells them to stop, but ultimately she says she can’t control how other people see her and does not want to cut contact with them because they’re her only “friends”.
She has a guy best friend that she just revealed to me admitted his love for her 4 months ago and she told him he is like a brother to her, so he “changed” his stance (which I don’t believe) as only seeing her as a friend.
Apparently he and his family are flying out for vacation next week to where she is and she wants to go see him and I outright said absolutely not, but she makes me feel like the bad guy for not wanting her to be around dudes who want to bang her or have “secret” romantic interests in her.
I do not believe men and women can be friends AT ALL without there being secret implications.
I trust her, but I do not trust her friends whatsoever and want her to cut contact with them, but she says i’m isolating her.
I need advice. Am I the bad guy here? Is her refusing to cut contact with these guys for the sake of our relationship huge red flags?