Girlfriend refuses to wear underwear and she doesn’t see a problem with sitting in positions that expose her to others in public
Hi all I have a problem with my girlfriend who is 18 (I am 21).
See the issue is that she doesn’t wear underwear on most days — and she also tends to wear fairly short shorts.
She also sits in certain positions where people can easily see her crotch area – such as sitting on steps outside building with her legs spread out. Putting her feet up on seats. Crossing her legs to the side. Etc.
I have tried to ask her to stop before however she tells me that “it is her body and stop trying to control what she wears”. Like a childish and warped retort based on “my body my rules” but… irrelevant?
So I try to say it’s not about what she is wearing but what she ISNT wearing! That is the real problem!
I think it’s disgusting and because people can easily see her private parts, kids included. In fact kids can probably see more of the view because they’re shorter.
It is gonna be seen by everyone who even glances in her direction.
Can anyone please please please help me talk some sense into her? It’s extremely embarrassing to have family and friends have to tell me in codes language that her area is showing and stuff.