so my ex gf, as we were going to marry soon, I made her confess that she cheated on me for a whole year. we were together for like 6 years and this past year she banged a guy who was 5 year younger than her.
after the confession, she got absolutely guilt-ridden and she started beating herself up for what she did to a loyal man who ignored the whole world for her.
the irony is that the guy she slept with was no better, not in bed, not romantically, not better brains, not with better money.
she claims it just happened. I can’t digest, that a man got into her for a whole year just accidentally.
well after the confession she realized that she got nothing better even with cheating. everything she got was lesser than what I was giving her. she ruined my whole life.
but anyways I left her, and after 2 months she is like “I’m sorry” theres nothing better about him. but I didn’t allow that dirt into my life again.
Well cheating once isn’t an ‘accident’ so cheating for a year certainly isn’t.