I just need to vent a bit as i can’t say this in front of them. My Great Grandad was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer back in January 2021 and for around 7 months he was doing great you wouldn’t even be able to tell he had cancer then he took a turn for the worst after my grandad told him he had cancer.
so my family had tried to spend as much time as we could with him (me and my mum) then the rest of the family started to organise days out to make and create long lasting memories but didn’t invite us
(i’m not saying they should feel forced to, but when the reason there all going out was to spend time w my granda it’s understandable to be pissed)
but they continued doing this depriving me and my mother from spending time with him as when he got back he would nap as he was exhausted.
When he got even worse my granny put him into hospital a few days and we all had allocated slots to visit him, So me my mum and my granny went up to only run into my aunt and cousin they mentioned they’d been there for six hours and by the time we went in there he was exhausted even for his own wife(only allowed to visit before meals)
and don’t get wrong i completely understand visiting him but when he’s too tired for his own wife because of them it’s a bit far.
They went up to their house every single day exhausting him.
When he passed in September they stopped visiting as much. it just makes me feel bad for my granny it just made it look like their only there for granda. there so selfish and i just can’t stand them.