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GUY’S NEW GF HAS HER OWN JOB, BUT STILL ASKS HIM FOR POCKET MONEY TO GO SPA

My (M32) recent girlfriend (F30) is asking for “spa money” from me, instead of using her own. It makes me pretty uncomfortable that she want’s me to just give her money.

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So I’ve been dating this girl for a few months now and things have been going good for the most part. She’s been upfront that she wants a more “traditional” relationship, whereas I’m more modern.

If we get married one day she says she wants quit work to be a stay at home wife and homemaker. I’m more of the mindset that we should share household responsibilities regardless.

To get to the point at hand, we’re not even living together yet and we’ve only been dating since late February. She’s mentioned times in the past that she often gets her parents to pay for her beauty supplies, makeup, or spa trips now and then, despite the fact that she works her own full time job as a vet assistant.

Last night she slept over, and this morning before I left for work she asked for some spa money so she could go there and treat herself after work.

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I told her I’d think about it and get back to her, but it kind of makes me uncomfortable that she’s even asking for my money to do this instead of using her own.

I’ve bought her things when we’re together before, paid the bill whenever we go out, brought her flowers and lunch to her work, but never just given her cash.

Do a lot of women expect their partners to just give them “fun money”, or pay for solo spa trips?

Thinking about it, she did buy a Keurig for my place a while back, maybe paying for a spa trip evens it out?? I don’t know. It makes me feel pretty used to just give her cash though.

TL;DR: Girlfriend of ~3 months is asking for money to go to a spa after work by herself. It makes me uncomfortable she’s asking for my money instead of using her own, even though she has a job.

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