(M20) My parents are mad at me because my sister (F18) slept with my friend (M20)
Our folks are really traditional. They are saying that it’s my fault since the guy she did it with is my best friend. My sister’s been in love with him for a long time now.
I told her ‘do whatever you want, as long as it’s not illegal’ and then tried not to get draw in, but she’d always complained to me about how he’s so shy and couldn’t pick up the clues. I guess I got annoyed into action.
I told my best friend “My sister thinks you’re cute so please go out with her if you think she’s cute or let her down gently.” They got together and had intercourse last week.
Our parents found condoms in her room and when she told them how she and my friend got together, they got mad at me.
They also shamed her for losing her virginity too. She is still dating him and they are pestering me and telling me to end this.
Eventually I lost it and told them that my sister could screw whoever she wants and they need to stop pressuring me to get involved in this. How do I get them to listen?