I hate my wife she deserves what’s happening to her
I’ll keep this short. She cheated with a coworker. 4 years long affair. She was carrying his child when she met an accident. She lost the baby as well as her legs. She’s in wheelchair now and can’t ever walk again. I’m STUCK with her.
Her coworker had his cake and ate it, I’m the one paying for it. I already drained our entire savings on her operations and getting her to senses.
Now we are without savings, I’m doing 100% of the finances and housework while she stares at the window thinking about the lovable memories with her despicable coworker.
I can’t leave because we have little kids and I’ll be painted the bad guy because that’s what this society does. No matter how much we accomplish, it’s less or unappreciated.
At this point, I hope she dies! I can’t take it any longer.
Do you think divorce is that easy? I spent all of our savings to get her home from hospital and then she drops the big news of her infidelity.
Now I’m the only money maker in the family. I have to do the work, do the kids and take care of house all by myself.
Despite all that, I asked her to visit therapy. I grew up without a home. I know the importance of family. Divorce isn’t easy. I’ll have to split up everything (house, car, bank, even our kids) This is not easy!
Leaving someone you spent 20 years of your life with when they are at this condition is not easy! I see her weeping, I see her laughing maniacally and it breaks my heart!
I can’t attend therapy or file for divorce because this will further break her down and I don’t want that. Sometimes you have to sacrifice yourself and your needs! I hate her so much that I freaking love her!