My wife is my best friend, we game together, we hike together, we play dnd with our friends once a week together and we’re expecting our first kid soon, overall I’m over the moon. Obviously, though, we spend a lot of time together so I guess I could see how maybe my perspective is skewed on what’s “appropriate” so I’m posting here.
A few months ago one of our mutual friends fell on hard times. His long term partner kicked him out, he’s been laid off almost a year at this point etc., he asked if he could stay in our guest room for a few weeks, wife and I agreed. A few weeks turned into a few months, no big deal but we are getting a bit antsy to have our space back. We told him he needs to be out in two months though because we’d like a little “baby moon” before our child gets here.
Since my wife and I got together we’ve been a daily intimate kind of couple, also through pregnancy.
Well, last night our friend tripped the shut off in his bathroom (it has one of those moisture shutoff things, you don’t need to reset the breaker but reset on the plug) and came up to ask us how to get the lights back on. I guess he was right outside our door and listening to see if we were still awake and heard us.
This morning he “sat us down” and said he was really uncomfortable to know we were doing that while he’s in the house. I pointed out to him that some days he doesn’t leave the house at all (most days if we are being honest) so it’s kind of inevitable, his room is right across. He then said for the next two months he will go for a walk once a week so “we can if we must” I told him that wouldn’t work because it’s a daily thing.
He then got very upset and demanded to know if it was true we’d done this everyday for the three months he’s been living here and said with my wife’s “condition” he wouldn’t have expected that. He then went on to say we are both perverted for doing that while he is here and that we violated his consent. I told him to find a new place to stay then.
He told some people about the exchange and while most people have said he’s being childish others have also said me kicking him out 2 months earlier than we last said over it is extreme.