My husband spit in my plate after I refused to share it with him.
I need to vent without being judged.
Last night, I made dinner and served my husband his portion then went into the room to study for my upcoming exam.
I reheated my portion later at around 11pm and sat down to eat. My husband was asleep at the time then he woke up, showed up in the kitchen and stood by the door saying he was hungry.
I told him to look in the fridge for some snacks but he wanted some of my food. I said I was sorry but was so hungry and needed a hot meal.
He insisted, I still said no. He went ahead and grabbed a spoon and tried to eat from my plate but I took it away just in time.
Immediately and without any warning, he spits in to the plate then throws the spoon in the sink then casually walk out while calling me a petty b***h.
I was so shocked to the point of shaking. and because of being overwhelmed with studying and other issues I just broke down crying.
now that plate was filled with both his spit and my tears. I ended up throwing it out and started a screaming match with him. He accused me of being petty and selfish then said I “pushed him” to do this.
We have not been speaking since then. He’s acting like he was justified in what he did.