A Singaporean woman recently complained on Facebook after her husband is trying to force her to get her daughter to take a paternity test after he found out that she had a f**k buddy who was a colleague when she was still working in the Singapore Armed Forces.
Here is the full story.
Husband has been lying about workplace habits – often comes home about an hour or two late. His Grab bookings are sometimes strange – he works in the West side of CBD, but sometimes his Grab pickup points are at like East CBD, and I know it’s too far to walk since I work East CBD. At least, it’s too far to reasonably walk just to get to a Grab pickup point, but he insists that he walks there because there isn’t any one responding to his booking near his office for a while and that’s why he’s late? Also, recently he’s been insisting on a paternity test for our kid, and I’m not sure why this is?
So I’m not inclined to agree to it, there’s no good reason to go for it in the first place. Bit of background, I met him just as I was leaving the SAF (ended contract early) and we kinda hit it off. So we were hanging out as friends for a while. During that time I had this on and off relationship with a guy in camp, and we had sex quite regularly.
A day before my husband officially asked me out, I’d ended things with this on and off guy, but we had sex one last time, kind of like break-up sex but not really? We weren’t really in a proper relationship I’d say, and we all know we weren’t exclusive to each other – he was most likely sleeping with other girls too. Because of that, I’ve always insisted on protection, and there was nothing different about this last time.
So the next few months went by without a problem, and then my husband proposed to me (pretty fast, I know) about 6 months later. I found out I was pregnant about 2 months after, and so the whole process was kind of a rush. So I’ve no reason to believe our kid is anything other than our kid – I’ve only ever done it unprotected with my husband.
But my husband’s insisting on a paternity test despite the fact that it’s pretty impossible for our kid to be like, not his? I’m not sure what this is about, honestly I think I should be the one asking him about his late-nights and unusual Grab bookings? Is he just deflecting the issue or something?