Husband said he doesn’t like me when I’m happy.
This is weird to write. My husband has told me, probably once a year since we got together 6 years ago that he is so dissatisfied to the point of leaving because of incompatibility.
So as I always do, I tell him he should do what he feels is best and leave.
I always wondered why he felt this way as he eventually shrugs it off after a while of seeing me hurt and missing me and says he doesn’t mean it he’s just confused.
However I’m getting sick of hearing this crap and constantly thinking my relationship is going to end.
Getting to the point, today he said he loves me when I’m sad, but when I’m happy and excited about life and things in it, he gets severely unattractive to my personality.
Like what does that mean?
He said he’s confused about it too and asked if he just needs help psychologically. I know it’s not my fault that he feels this way, I’m just being myself. But damn it makes me feel like crap.