My husband keeps finding out about kids he has
So about 3ish years ago my husband found out he might have a son from years ago…when we contacted the “father” he told my husband that he always questioned his sons paternity and that it was likely he was not his father.
My husband explained that he knew the man’s ex-wife because they went to school together and then she was a hostess and even though my husband denies having a thing for her, he used to hangout in that crowd.
Said they would hook up here and there. The man asked my husband if he could also be his daughters father…my husband said the timeline did make it possible.
Well, we did a dna test, and sure enough, both of them are my husband’s.
We have blended some, and there is a lot of respect amongst all of us adults. The kids now 16 and 18 are wonderful.
Now 3 years later we are in the same boat. He says he remembers a conversation and messaged another girl who was a hostess and she said it is possible that he is the father.
Now the reason I say another hostess – his son that I knew about and have adopted, mom was a hostess, ex wife was a hostess, new baby’s mum was a hostess and now possible new baby’ momma’s mum 2…hostess.
he says he has to know and keeps messaging these women. I asked if one of them flirted or crossed a line , would he stop talking to them, and he said he couldn’t honestly answer that because he has to know, but he would stop the flirting.
Am I crazy? I am so mad and feel so uncomfortable. Like I get it, your children. But 3…3 kids you didn’t know about. 2 by the same women that you had at our house a month before we met, that we fought about.
Another one that just pops up. How do you just remember now. I should add that none of the mom’s have custody of their children.
How would you feel if this was your situation. He says he can see why this makes me angry but that it’s frustrating to him that I get upset. I’m like yeah it’s frustrating that you keep talking to ex flings and bringing home babies!! Lol