For context, my husband and I have been living apart for 6 months as he found a job at Jurong Island and he is on a 12-hour shift and it makes no sense to travel 1 hour plus 2-ways just to come home, shower and to sleep less than 8 hours. Luckily, his company provides him with an allowance and he uses it to rent a room in the Jurong West area.
I would wish that he could be staying in our flat, however, I am working at Changi and my contract is not due yet so we agreed to commute back and forth until I finished my current job (which will be next month). He moved purely for financial reasons and not due to any relationship issues.
I live in a normal HDB apartment in the east. However, as I’ve been lonely and sad I’ve been sleeping on the couch in front of the t.v. I only go to my actual bedroom to change clothes.
My husband came back yesterday to visit me. This morning he was in the bedroom and started asking me about a pair of men’s trousers he found. I was confused and said they must be his. He started to get more agitated and said they can’t be his trousers. I started laughing as I said they are definitely his trousers. I haven’t seen them before but I said they must be an old pair he had forgotten about. He got angry and said this is impossible.
I asked him if he thinks another man was here and he didn’t answer, he just said whose trousers are these? I told him no other man was here and it hurt me he could think of me like that.
Also, I said if another man came why would I just leave his trousers there like that? Also, he can check my phone anytime I never stop him.
He is angry and said to just leave it. I don’t know what to do as I really never had another man here and I never cheated. Additionally, I compared the trousers to his other older trousers and they are the same size.
But he is still angry. What can i do?