I’m (33F) upset that my husband (31M) got plastic surgery without telling me
I just found out today that my husband got some cool sculpting done a few months ago and never told me about it.
I found out because we were having a casual conversation about something I wanted to have done in the future and he accidentally let it slip that he did this a few months ago and then looked completely uncomfortable.
It was obvious he didn’t mean to say anything and had just gotten caught up in the moment.
I don’t have an issue with any forms of plastic surgery but what I do have a problem with is that he omitted telling me about it.
My husband is a FT student so I have to pay all of our bills. I’m upset that he felt it was okay to spend 4k on a cosmetic procedure but can’t contribute to our household bills every month.
Aside from that, what is really scary, is that he was able to conceal all the appointments from me and time away to get this done. I honestly had no idea.
I need an objective opinion on this, am I validated to feel upset that my husband lied by omission about this?