My husband spent almost $500 on Onlyfans and custom content from random women.
I (f25) saw some questionable charges on my husbands (m29) credit card and when I asked him about it he pretended he had no idea what I was talking about and that it must be fraud.
Okay I won’t argue. He has a history of making impulsive purchase so I expected I would have to investigate myself.
I logged into his email and looked at the emails from the same day of the purchases and saw a bunch of PayPal transactions.
Long story short I was able to trace it to only fans subscriptions, custom content purchases and saw he was sending money to random women for god knows what.
In the span of a month and a half he’s spent almost $500 of OUR MONEY on this shit. My birthday was two weeks ago and he said he was low on money but would take me out next time he got paid.
Now I know why. I haven’t confronted him yet bc idk what to do. I feel completely disrespected, disappointed and angry and I know that I can’t talk to him right now when I’m so worked up.
Also I’ve been trying to be more adventurous sexually and feel like we’ve been great lately so this just feels like such a slap in the face and like I’ll never be enough.
I’m so angry and I have no one else to talk to about this bc it’s so embarrassing. I don’t know what my next step is going to be. I don’t deserve this.