Husband (35M) says he forgives my (32F) infidelity but I have NEVER cheated!
Basically what the title says. Last night we were having an argument when he threw it in my face that if he can forgive my infidelity then I can get over the issues we were arguing about.
Guys, I’m completely blown away. He insists he has proof but won’t show it to me. Won’t tell me who I’ve allegedly cheated on him with or when I’d even have time to cheat between working full time and doing almost all the housework and childcare.
He alternated between saying that I know exactly what he’s talking about and saying I should just drop it because he forgives me so it doesn’t matter.
This morning he’s acting like the whole thing never happened. What the literal fuck? I want to bring it up but I don’t even know how??
Does he actually believe this? To everyone reading this, could you just casually continue with your life if you actually believed your partner cheated on you? Or is he just doing this to deflect from the actual issues, which we never ended up resolving after he dropped this bomb?
I don’t honestly don’t know which is worse. I haven’t spoken to him all morning because I don’t even know what to say.
But he is, or seems to be, totally oblivious. If anything, he’s in an extra upbeat mood this morning while I’m sitting here in total shock and disbelief.
Where do we go from here? What do I do? Can someone give me suggestions on what to say because I honestly feel like I’m going to cry every time I try to put my feelings into words, and he will absolutely see those tears as proof of guilt. Please help.
tl:dr Husband accused me of cheating during an argument, refuses to discuss it further, and is now pretending it never happened. I am stunned and don’t know what to do.