My (28F) husband (32M) wants a divorce after we just welcomed our first child
I (28F) have been married to my husband (32M) for three years. We just recently a few months ago welcomed our first child (withholding age and gender in case someone recognizes me).
Prior to our child, he was the most amazing husband a girl could ask for. Once we had our child, it was as if a switch went off and who I once knew was gone.
He is an amazing father, but a mediocre husband at best. The once loving man who would send me flowers once a week “just because” started to mistreat me and say things I can’t repeat, as well as always throwing divorce in my face.
My postpartum issues were so bad at one point, and I knew the source of it was him. I am extremely passive and typically tend to let things slide. I endured months of taunts, comments, and overall horrible things being said to me.
Yesterday I had finally had enough and told him he disgusts me, I would never forgive him for the things he said, and that he is emotionally manipulative.
He told me what I said was the worst thing he has ever heard (I’m not withholding anything, that is what I said and that he wants a divorce.
For context, he is a multimillionaire. Early on, we decided if we had kids, I would stay home with them u til they are old enough to be in school and then I could work if I wanted. Therefore, I have no income.
I am alone. I don’t know what changed, but it’s like the man I married just vanished one day. Any advice? (If there are any more questions so you can have more context, please ask).