My husband left my home earlier today to go watch the football game with some friends. He left his Apple Watch at my house, and I very stupidly went through it.
On his watch, I saw him ask a coworker to come to visit him at like 12 AM when I left, and then asking her if she got home safe at times such as 3 AM, 6 AM. I’m not stupid, I know they weren’t just watching movies. She sent a text that said, “I had so much fun last night”.
We have been together for 7 years and know each other since we were in school. I’m almost 6 months pregnant and I don’t know what to do. I texted him pictures of the messages when I found out around 8 PM and it’s now 2 AM and I can’t sleep because I have not gotten a response.
I know he had to see the message as he was active on Whatsapp, showing that he’s online.
It hurts to know I was cheated on. However, it’s so embarrassing that I am not important enough to dump his friends and come have a conversation and I am just getting ignored. I’m not sure what to do. I feel as if my baby deserves a two-parent household.
I just do not want to be the only person putting forth effort.
Here are what netizens think:
- He’s probably panicking that you found out and is crowdsourcing the ridiculous story he’s going to tell you so you don’t dump him. If you have family, go stay with them. You’re growing a child right now, you don’t need his.
- I am so sorry you’re dealing with this. Thank you for trusting your intuition and not making excuses for his behavior.
- This is the hard part. I promise you, the best thing you can do for your mental health is to stop dwelling on that “why”. The answers will range from unhelpful to actively self-destructive, and you’ll get every flavor of that as you move forward.