There’s this colleague of mine who is like my office bff that I’ll confide in about everything work-related. One of the things I told her about is this guy from another department who has been trying to chase me.
I’m quite positive he is into me because he will always drop by my desk to chat with me and would go out of his way to help me for things that are not even part of his job scope.
Don’t like to pangsai where I eat so I made him give up
He is a nice guy but I’m not for office romance and I don’t feel anything special for him so I’ve been trying very hard to drop hints to him to give up.
I don’t know if it is because my hints aren’t obvious enough or he knows but refuses to acknowledge them, but he is very persistent and doesnt seem like he’ll stop.
Naturally I told my office bff about him and she offered me a lot of comfort and solid advice on what to do.
My bff told me that actually he is her boyfriend
Recently she confessed to me that the guy is her boyfriend and they have been actually dating for more than a year. I was damn shocked when she told me this and I felt so embarrassed about telling her all the details that must have been so awkward for her to hear.
When I could finally speak, I apologised to her for all the discomfort that I put her through and told her that her boyfriend isn’t a good guy so she should end things with him.
She told me that although he is very flirty, he is very good to her so she’ll stick with him until the day he initiates a break up.
And she even thanked me for making her bf very happy cos she can see how happy he is when he’s around me.
When she said that I sumpah I almost wanted to slap her. I’ve since left the company because I don’t wanna be around such crazy dynamics but on Facebook I can see that they’re still together.