I was an accident child. My parents were very young and still in the dating phase when they conceived me and were unable to take care of me, so they threw me to my grandparents to take care of me.
I never felt wanted or loved by them, and I was always resentful of them for not taking care of me themselves.
My grandparents took care of me meticulously and watched me grow up
Growing up, I felt like a burden to my grandparents and I constantly felt like an afterthought in their lives even though they did not think that way and took care of me like I was their own child.
They gave me their best and took care of me meticulously, making sure that I had a comfortable growing up experience and they were always there to fill the void left by my parents.
I was never able to get close to my parents, since they were always out and about having fun, not caring about me or taking care of me.
Now that I started working, my parents wants to get money from me
Now that I am older, my parents have come back into my life with a motive. They demand money to pay for their monthly expenses, and I am expected to provide them with whatever they need.
I am a grown up lady now and had just started working and I am taking care of my grandparents as well because I owe it to them for what I have today.
It’s hard for me to provide my parents with money when I don’t even have enough for myself.
I feel resentful towards my parents for not taking care of me when I was younger and now expecting me to provide for them financially.
I am constantly reminded of how they neglected me, and it makes me so angry. I feel like I have been taken advantage of and used.
I wish I could just turn my back on them and their demands, but I am too kind hearted to do that. I feel obligated to help them out, even though I don’t have to.
I hate feeling like I’m being taken advantage of, and it makes me so angry.
It’s a constant battle between my heart and my head. I want to do the right thing and take care of my parents, but I also don’t want to be taken advantage of.
It’s a difficult situation and I am not sure what to do.
All I know is that I want to be free from my parents’ demands, but I don’t know how to go about it.