I wanna know all of your thoughts about this. All of you, read this.
At the time of posting, there’s a TikTok video that went viral about this couple in a car while they were on a drive thru, waiting for their food.
So the bf was scrolling ig and happens that a pretty attractive woman’s photo, possibly his old friend, appeared on his feed. Gf saw that, and asked, “Why didn’t you try to get her?”, to which he replies “Cause I know I couldn’t in the first place”. Gf then proceed to ask him to elaborate, to which he says “Cause I know myself. I know my level. So I’m not interested to try”.
Apparently, this respond hurts the gf. The gf the says “When you say that, you’re saying that that woman is on such a high level that you couldn’t get her. So which means you’re saying I’m such a low level”. Bf then says “No, that’s not what I mean”. The conversation was cut when they got their food, and video ended there.
It went viral and so many people, typically women, be saying “Omg your bf is such a red flag!!! You deserve better Queen!!!! You need to leave him!!! He doesn’t appreciate you!!!”, and more similar comments. Because they went viral, the bf started to believe that maybe he’s not right for her, thanks to the negative comments. He then peacefully broke up with her and requested the gifts he gave he to be returned to him. All those gifts were really expensive too. iPad, Air Pods, Marshall speaker, and many more expensive items.
So what’s your thoughts?
Here’s mine : The gf is at fault and wrong.
I’m probably gonna be the only woman going against her, but I don’t agree with her at all. Like first off, she asked the question, so expect getting the answer from his heart. I know she wants the bf to say things like “Cause I already have you” or “You’re way better than her” or whatever sweet cringe bullshit. But instead, he gave out his deep truth, he says that she was out of his league, so he has self-awareness of his on level. Cause come on, in life, there’s always, and I mean ALWAYS gonna be someone better than you. Some don’t even have any self-awareness and acted like a douche and became a self-entitled piece of shit that believes they deserve better, when they don’t even bring anything to the table (Looking at you, toxic modern feminist). So I respect the bf for speaking up on his insecurities.
But what did the gf do? Instead of understanding his point, she’s making it all about her. Started questioning if she’s a “low level” to him instead of thinking “I see. That’s understandable cause even I know there’s guy out there that’s way too high level for me to bother.” 0 understanding. She even recorded it and posted it on TikTok all for views, and that hurts and pressures the bf so bad, he blames himself for not being “good enough” for her and broke up with her.
It’s reportedly the guy has been a great bf. The gifts were one of the proofs. So what stupid reassurance and validation the gf need from him to say she higher level or not? It’s not like the gf is any “higher” level, there’s always gonna be someone else better but yet the bf chose her and committed to her.
My husband and I had this conversation before and I wasn’t mad at all. He is honest, and I know I’m not a supermodel kind. But the fact he chose me is the thing I will forever appreciate. Y’all who keep picking fights out of thin air and making it about yourself are nothing but losers like gooooooosssssh get a life ????????????????????????????????????????
If the situation was reversed, where the bf ask why don’t she try to get a super hot popular tall rich friend of hers, and if she says “Cause I know my level. He’s out of my league”, the bf is expected to accept it as it is and not making any issues out of it. Cause if he makes an issue and show that he is insecure, suddenly he’s toxic, he’s a huge “redflag”, he has “small d*ick energy” like whaaaaaaat ???????????????????????????????????????? Its wrong if men do it but it’s okay if women do it. And women still cry about “equality” ????????????????????????????????????????
Then y’all wonder why no one wants you ????????????
Then y’all wonder why there’s no more good men ????????????
Then y’all wonder why you’re so lonely ????????????
This is why I will always be hated by women. I don’t care if I’m a woman, but I will never support the idea of saying “Men are always wrong” or “Men are evil” from women. Look at yourself in the mirror and fix that shit first before you go and attack men.
Get a life and touch some grass ????????????????????????????????????????