A netizen shared how his girlfriend, who is working as an insurance agent with an unspecified insurance company, is draining him of his savings and making him pay off her parents’ house loan.
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“I am in my mid-30s and was planning to propose to my girlfriend, but I’m now thinking twice because I have seen so many red flags.
We have been together since we were university students, but she changed so much after joining the insurance industry, it’s like she’s a different person altogether now.
She is one of those who post about “working hard and playing hard” online, always flaunting off her branded bags and watches and those insurance gala events wearing expensive dresses and sipping expensive alcohol, sharing videos of herself having holidays in Europe and posting motivational quotes about “working hard” to be rewarded.
But little did people know that I am the one who paid for most of her s—.
She started spiralling into an indomitable vacuum of greed and spent money that she simply did not have, even buying a Merc for her parents because she thought she was financially well to do.
She made my whole entire family buy expensive insurance plans from her, and now she is even making me shoulder the responsibility of her parents’ HDB loan.
I don’t partake in drinking or smoking nor do I have any hobbies that are considered expensive, and all the money that I have saved up over the years from working as a logistics manager has been almost fully exhausted on her and her family.
She was a completely different person from before she became an insurance agent, and I don’t recognise this person anymore.
I have two paths right now, continue being used by her or leave her to restart my life. The answer is very simple, but why is it so hard for me to leave her?
Advice please. appreciate it.”
Editors’ note: Just rip the bandaid off.
Source: Aiden Ng