I was looking for a job and found a posting for an administrative assistant at a local business.
I was excited to apply and thought I had a good chance of getting the position. After sending in my resume, I received a call for an interview. I was elated and immediately started to plan my look for the big day.
I wanted to look professional and put together, so I decided to wear a navy blue skirt that came down to my knees.
On the day of the interview, I arrived at the office with my best foot forward, dressed in my navy skirt, a white blouse and a pair of black pumps. I felt confident and was ready to impress the interviewer. As soon as I walked into the office, I was greeted by an older gentleman.
He looked me up and down and immediately commented on my skirt.
He said, “That skirt is far too long. We prefer our employees to wear mini skirts.”
I was completely taken aback by his words. I had never experienced anything like this before and was completely shocked that he would say something so inappropriate. I was so embarrassed and could feel my cheeks burning. I didn’t know what to say and I was starting to realize that this might not be the job for me.
I tried to remain professional and not let my emotions show. I simply said, “I’m sorry, I thought this skirt was appropriate for an interview.” He just smiled and said, “Well, you should know that we prefer our employees to wear mini skirts.” I couldn’t believe my ears. I wanted to scream and tell him that he was a pervert and had no business interviewing me.
I was so angry and embarrassed, I wanted to just walk out of the office and never look back. However, I knew that this would not be the best course of action and that I should try to remain professional. So, I gathered my composure and simply thanked him for his time and said that I would think about his comments.
Thankfully, I never heard from him again and I was able to find a different job at a much more reputable company. Looking back, I realize that I was lucky to escape a potentially dangerous situation. I was also lucky that I was able to remain professional despite my embarrassment and anger.