I’m a Malaysian girl from Johor and I have been single for a while now. I’ve dated Malaysian guys but none of them have been able to match up to the standards of the Singaporean guys I’ve been with.
My experience with Malaysian guys has been nothing short of disappointing.
Malaysian guys are often too lazy and unambitious, and it’s almost like they expect the world to be handed to them on a silver platter. They’re also incredibly possessive and overprotective, which can be suffocating at times.
On the other hand, Singaporean guys are more hardworking and more gentle. They are willing to put in the effort to make things work and they are much more understanding and accommodating when it comes to relationships.
The Singaporean guys I’ve been with also have a better sense of responsibility and financial management. They’re able to plan ahead and they’re not afraid to take risks in order to accomplish their goals. This is in stark contrast to the Malaysian guys who are more content to just drift along without any real direction or motivation.
Of course, Singaporean guys do have some weaknesses. They can be a bit too modern and less traditional and conservative at times and they’re not as sociable as Malaysian guys. But I can live with that because I know that these weaknesses are outweighed by their strengths.
At the end of the day, Singaporean guys are ten times more reliable than Malaysian guys and that’s what matters most to me.
I know I can count on them to be there for me when I need them and that’s why I’m never going to date a Malaysian guy again.