He adores me, and I genuinely believe that he’d do anything for me, as he’s made me his number one priority above everything else in his life. But he is so needy and gets jealous over the slightest thing.
Last night, we went out with my friend and her partner for a meal. We’d all had a few drinks and were joking around and having banter. The subject somehow turned to body hair, and my friend was pointing out that her partner has lots of chest hair and that he shaves it. I said that there was no need to shave his chest and added that I like a man with chest hair.
My boyfriend gave me the daggers, and it caused a huge argument when we got back to my place. He was accusing me of “fancying” my friend’s partner, which is not the case at all. My boyfriend has chest hair, so I didn’t see what the issue was.
Other examples include him getting jealous of me speaking to other men at work and him asking whether they’re hitting on me.
He came to my house the other day, and there was a bowl with two forks on the coffee table, and he was wondering why there were two. I said, “You think I’ve had someone here, don’t you?” He completely denied it, but I just knew.
I have a demanding job. He says he feels like a weekend boyfriend, but I can’t do anything about that.
It’s such a shame, because he can be so lovely and supportive. I just feel like his behaviour is too needy.
Any advice?