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JOBLESS BF IN DEBT BUT STILL PAYING BILLS, GF REFUSES TO HELP PAY HER SHARE

Gf doesn’t want to pay her share of the bills. It’s driving me insane.

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I’m currently jobless. I’ve been out of work for about 3 months while I focused on school and took some time off for mental health reasons. I continued paying my bills. I pay about 70% of the total amount of all bills. Again. Jobless. I saved up enough money to keep us afloat for a year and obviously this isn’t something I plan to do much longer. I finally got a job offer where I’ll be paid a lot more than what I was before.

This is important as she then said she wants to pay off debt. So I need to take over more bills and basically pay 90% or so of the total bills while she focuses on debt. I’m also in debt. More than her. She knows this. I told her this is BS and we can split the bills 50/50 or even a little more on my end. Like 65% since I earn more. I am not willing to take on most or all of it, as I got debt too.

She said well you earn enough it’s not an issue. We got into a huge fight and now I just left as I’m so mad she even said that. I’m not gonna kill myself at work and stay in debt so she can come out debt free. Then what? She leaves me? Naw. I ain’t about that.

I can’t seem to knock sense into her that in a relationship it’s 5050. Again. I don’t mind helping out a little more. But to pull the full weight on my shoulders. That’s asking too much. I spoiled myself with a new phone. As mine was 8 years old. Just a 2020 iPhone SE. I never spoil myself. Figured I needed a better phone as I’ll be on the road all day. I need a newish phone. She complained. Meanwhile she’s getting tattoos and piercings and all this other unneeded stuff just cause. How you gonna complain about debt then buy useless things but get mad when someone buys something useful and needed? My phone camera didn’t work. Screen cracked. Battery sucked. I buy a cheap phone and it’s the end of the world.

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I also wanted to add she began treating me a little worse as time went on with me being out of a job. To the point she began telling me I need to get one and how she’s worried about being homeless. I was made to believe I was inferior. I literally have 1 year of money. I can get a job QUICK. Which I did as soon as I finished school and felt better mentally. The second she found out I was going to be making a lot of money. All of a sudden she’s interested in me a little more than usual. Okay. I’m being used.

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