Office aunties can’t stop pestering me after finding out I use a dating app
I’ve started using dating apps recently and my colleagues in office have caught wind about it. I didn’t really cared until they started being busybody and those ladies in their 40s were telling me I should give people a chance and be not so quick to judge and the most important is that the guy treats me well (but it’s literally an app?).
I’ll admit, I am rather picky and I immediately swipe left on guys I don’t find attractive. I won’t read their bio or whatever because if I don’t find you attractive, no matter how fantastic the bio, I can’t change that I don’t feel attracted to you?
I don’t disagree that it’s important for the guy to treat you well but if the guy is not attractive in my eyes, no matter how well he treats me, I will probably not have any romantic interests towards him.
Looks do matter to me for some extent and for it to work, I must find him attractive, even if he is the ugliest guy to everyone else.
Seems like the people in my office don’t seem to understand that I am perfectly content staying single and not desperate to get attached.
I earn my own keep, buy the things I like and I actually enjoy having my own free time. I am okay to have or not to have kids, my life goal is not to be a mum, it’s to just be happy, alone or with a partner.
Don’t know why everyone is so ready to give me advice and I feel like telling them to just stfu honestly. You can lower your standards, but that doesn’t mean I have to lower mine?
I don’t think there is any shame in a woman staying single as long as I am happy. After all, I rather be in a relationship that makes me happy than one that doesn’t?
Is there a way for me to politely tell these office aunties to just mind their own business? I’m already dreading going to office.