wife wants me to be rough but refuses to admit it hurts her
I (M23) recently married my wife (F19) 3 weeks ago.
For context, I’m 193cm tall weighing in at 100kg, so I’m considerably a big guy. My wife on the other hand is the opposite – 154cm and petite; and is quite light that just for fun I carry her over my shoulder with one arm.
I say this because her favourite position in bed is me fully covering her body while I rail her, so you can imagine how much force I’m exerting on her with the sheer weight and size of my body on top of her small body.
The only thing stopping me from fully enjoying it is how uncomfortable she looks after we finish – I’ll never get memory out of my head of seeing her stumble in her walk and fall over after she got up – I cannot for the life of me figure out why she likes this if it’s causing her discomfort?
Unless it’s normal because we only started getting intimate a few weeks ago? Does it just get more tolerable over time? This isn’t an endowment issue, I’m as average as they come (6 inches)
I probably enjoy it more than she does – but I just can’t help feel sorry for her if she’s only insisting nothing is wrong for my sake?
Believe me, I’ve asked over 1000000 times to the point where I was really annoying her about it, and she isn’t breaking on her stance.