I (22 female) recently moved in with my boyfriend (24 male). Most of the expenses such as food and furniture were paid from the money I’ve saved throughout my years in school since it took some time for both of us to find a job.
I currently work in a supermarket which means I’m on my feet almost every day for 8 hours, sometimes I even work 9 or 10-hour shifts. My boyfriend starts work next month, which means he’s home all the time playing games on my computer or watching videos/movies.
Since I can barely even stand after I come home from work (this was the only job available btw, I needed something QUICKLY), the only thing I want from him as household chores such as washing the dishes or doing the laundry. I do the sweeping and mopping since he’s bad at it.
Recently we’ve been fighting occasionally about the dishes and laundry not being done even though it’s the ONLY thing I want from him.
He always gets mad and says that he’s not gonna do everything around the house just because he’s at home all day (there currently isn’t a single clean plate since he refused to do the dishes 3 days in a row).
He told me to do the dishes myself if it bothers me so much so I walked out of the house and went to work. Now he’s not talking to me.
So, am I the a**hole?
Edit: please stop telling me to leave him, he is perfect in every other way except house chores