Guy was totally overcome by us making out – what happened?!
Second date (me F30s, him 40s), we make out hard core, for like 20 minutes, in the middle of a meadow while hiking.
He made the first move. It escalated into heavy petting make-out, and was pretty hot. And was our first kiss, too.
And…He was SO overwhelmed after, like he was shaking, couldn’t really calm down, was totally weak-knees for a while after, he had to stop and like take deep breaths to try and calm down.
he was laughing about it and telling me everything that was going on for him, haha. He was like, “is it just me? did you feel it too?”
And I was like yeah, my legs are a little jello-y. But I wasn’t having that reaction, lol. I felt a little bad.
(Even for the walk back, he just was making jokes about not being able to think straight and what not, and I was over here doing perfectly fine!)
I mean, I know guys go into a bit of a tizzy and have to gain their composure or snap out of it to move along. But this was something else entirely!
So – I know he’s new to dating after a 20 year marriage. He joined a dating app like 1.5 months ago? I know he’s been on dates, but he was also traveling and really busy for like 3 weeks of all that.
While he wasn’t dating or having intercourse for a year during the divorce, he seems to be sleeping with his ex frequently leading up to the divorce. So he’s not super deprived.
Anyway – it’s possible I was his first kiss after the divorce? If not, then I was obviously the best one
Is this within the normal possibility of reactions to a first kiss after a divorce? Just a lot of new feelings and sensations? or am I just that amazing, lol?
This is not urgent or terribly serious – I’m just totally curious what was happening!