[33F 32M] my fiancé left me 3 weeks after I gave birth to our premature child.
We were together for a little more than 2 years. We were opposites but I saw it as our strength. He has been more and more distant from me around the 7th month of pregnancy.
We argued often, always about the same topics. He used to spend 3-4 days per week at his mother’s place in order to work and have access to his documents and tools.
I was then spending 3-4 nights alone in our apartment because he was used to spending the night at his mother’s place. That would frustrate me a lot and we would argue about this often.
Then our child was born 6 weeks preterm (34 weeks). I was at the hospital everyday until we got the green light to go home.
I would sleep at home and would often go home to an empty house, him spending the night at his mother’s place.
I would ask for his support and ask for him to sleep at home with me but he said that he needed to work and that it was my responsibility as a woman to take care of our child.
My heart was broken, I started to have dark thoughts and I told him about it. He decided to cancel our reservation for our wedding venue without telling me.
He said that he did not cancel but wished to postpone but did not tell me because I was down and that I would not react well to you the news.
A few days later he broke up with me. Telling me that he did not want to raise a child with me. That he’d rather comparent with me. That I’m too emotional, that I think that there’s 2 captain in the relationship and that he doesn’t have any control over his family.
Please tell me if it makes any sense ? I’m lost and heartbroken.